Cheeks to big

Sunday, December 20, 2009

Anabel's cheeks are too big for her own good. It's really funny. She is like a chipmunk or something. Food or anything she finds and puts in her mouth usually get caught in her big cheeks and she doesn't realize it's there. I'll find food or pieces of paper just camping out in her cheeks as though she is saving it for later, it's far too funny. I just found wads of paper in both her cheeks and she didn't act like she even knew they were there.

I also love how she just sits so well now. She will crawl to a toy, grab it and sit down and start playing with it like a big girl. I think it's so adorable, it just makes me smile. She is still so little and really short I think, but so big at the same time. We laid her down next to our friends 4 month old and he was almost as tall as her. I'm hoping that means she is going to be more like me and be really short and small. Although they say I'm not that short now, pretty average, but I didn't get that way until I was in my 20's I think. I've always been uber small and I thought I was really short as well. So we shall see how she turns out. I wouldn't mind all my girl to favor my in size, then all the boy favor their daddy.


Anabel loves playing on the bed. She is so cute. I love to watch her play.

So Big

Monday, November 23, 2009

Anabel is getting so big, it just blows me away how much she does and how little she still is.


She sits up on her own and gets in a sitting position on her, you know when she is crawling or rolling around. I believe she is learning the meaning of the words 'mama' and 'dada' that she says all the time. Like yesterday morning (and the recent mornings) she wakes up looks at daddy and whispers with a big smile on her face 'dada, dada'. And Bobby opens his eyes and yes 'yes Anabel, did you call daddy?' and she gets so happy. I think she knows what she was saying and saying it on purpose.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Screaming, standing

Ok this whole 'standing' thing is going to give me a heart attack! Seriously!
Just a minute ago she crawled to her walker, grabbed a hold of the back part and used it to help get a hold of the coffee table so she could stand there and get into all my stuff i had on it. She even fell once, straight back (thank goodness a stuffed animal cushioned her) I'm so afraid she is going to get hurt.

Oh and lately she has all been about 'getting mad' and screaming when she can't do something she wants too. Like right not she is screaming because she has a hold of the leg of the pack'n'play and can't pull it. If she drops her toys, she screams... she screams so much now. Before it was all for fun, now she is serious. It's crazy. She just started do this this last couple of days too.

What toddlerhood going to be like? LOL

She is getting another tooth on the top this time. It's not through the gums yet but i think it's close. She has been wanting to sleep and cuddle alot. Which would be fine sept she throws tantrums because even though she is sleepy she usually doesn't want to actually go to sleep. She still is nursing like crazy, and i've just been letting her... It's getting better (on my part) which is a relief.

Sunday, November 15, 2009

Things Anabel can do:

  • Say 'mama' and 'dada'
  • Half crawl/lunge (she gets around pretty well)
  • Pull herself up into a standing position
  • Pick things up with her thumb and index finger
  • Switches toys from one hand to the other
  • Babbles
  • Blows bubbles
  • Stick her pacifier back in her mouth by herself (she's been able to do that a long time)

Things Anabel likes:

  • HAIR!

She loves hair in her face. Loves me shaking my hair across her face. Love touching, pulling, chewing on hair. Laughs if daddy shakes his head on her stomach :) And she likes grabbing her own hair and messing with it with her fingers.

  • Her ears played with
  • CD's (one of her favorite toys, hehe)
  • Baths
  • Being read to
  • Watching TV (loves it)
  • Watching Mommy dance, hehe
  • Balls
  • Biscuit the dog
  • Paper, cords and shoes (things i try to keep her from, lol)
  • Peek-a-boo
  • Mommy laughing
  • Going to the store because mommy lets her touch everything (in less I'm in a hurry of course)
  • Pressing buttons on the keyboard

Favorite way to fall asleep:

  • Starring up at me (we have to look eye to eye) while i kiss all over her hands / or / her playing with my lips.

Other:

  • Anabel has learned to swing in her Johnny Jumper. She has a rhythm. She hops forward, lets herself swing backward, the hops forward, and repeats. She is very fast at it. Boy is it funny!
  • She recently got back into sticking her tongue out all the time.
  • Also she crinkles her nose, squints her eye and bats her eyelashes, to make a very cute face. Sometimes she has the tongue sticking out with it too. I love it!

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Friday, November 13, 2009

This is a pattern i bought yesterday and an antiques store.
These dolls are 32" tall... thats dang big!
I want to make one but Anna is probably to little for this Christmas.

Gangst'a Anna



Aunt Jessica put her pants on her head
I thought it was funnies


And this i made last night.

It's not 100% finished cause it needs eyes and a nose.

But i was proud of myself.

Got it done in like 2 hours.... I want to make more!

I have patterns for doggies and bears as well.




Noticing

Monday, October 26, 2009

Today i noticed Anabel actually watching were she dropped her toys off the side of her walker. It was so cute. She would drop them and she stand tall, extending her long neck as far as is could. Her arms would stretch out wide as she peired over the edge trying to see were the toy went.

She is getting to big... and very clingy. These days she doesn't want to be in her johnny jumper, on the floor or walker but a few mintutes, then her arms come out asking to be picked up and she fusses... boy does she fuss!

I don't know what to do with her most of the time because she fusses in my arms too... it's like nothing makes her happy.

I wonder if she is cutting more teeth... *el'sigh*

Head Scoot

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Weight and Height

Saturday, September 26, 2009

A few days ago i measured and weighted Anabel. She clocked in at:

19lb.
26in. long

According to this program i downloaded, it said she is in the 97th percentile, don't know if that is true or not though.

Morning

She is watching ‘Little Einsteins’ That Aunt Jessica bought her.

She usually wants to play for a half hour in the morning, then take a nap. She loves watching TV but i don’t really let her do it very much, I don’t think it’s really a good habit for a baby or child for that matter.

Fire

Last night i headed out to Mom and Dads farm at about 6:30pm. It was so nice out that i was in shorts and t-shirt and Anabel was in a onesie. Well as we were driving there was a dark cloud stretching over the highway. It looked like a storm was brewing. The wind picked up something terrible, making it harder to drive. Then out of no where Anabel squealed at the top of her lungs. It freaked me, i jumped something major. It didn’t help that the clouds sparked a scary story i cloud right and i was playing it over in my head, right when she yelled. LOL
Anyways when i got the mom and dad i was informed that the plan was to sit around the bomb fire and roast burgers over the open fire. By this time it had gotten quite chilly and me and Anabel were not dressed for being outside.
We ended up dressing Anabel in several footed sleepers and one of Grandpa’s caps.
Mom went and got me a pair of her sweat pants and one of dads sweaters. I looked really funny, like i had gained 50 pounds or something.
It was fun though and the food was really good. Anabel, Grandma and Dog Bill

Bill didn’t mind, LOL

She fell asleep right at the food got done cooking, it was perfect timing.

Toes & Johnny Jumper

Sunday, August 2, 2009

We tried the Johnny Jumper again today. I think she really liked it.

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If you can see ^^^^^^ Her nails are painted white XD I did that last night. Her fingers turned out the best because i didn’t do them until she fell asleep in my arms… for some reason i was stupid and tried to do her toes while she was awake… and they didn’t turn out so great.

Here are my big toes: ( got a Spa Pedicure this morning… el’wootness!)

100_7094I was hoping for a really bright neon green… but didn’t really turn out like that… oh well, i still like it!

My Cuddle Bug

Thursday, July 30, 2009

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Playing on her monkey floor mat

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My beautiful:

She is crazy about the roses that hang over her changing table. Every time i go to change her she looks for the flowers and acts so excited to see them. She will lay there for the longest time for kicking, talk and starring at those flowers!

Caught Her

I finally got a picture oh her sucking/chewing on her thumb. Forget the red eye, I don’t have a program on this laptop that really works good on that >_<

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Growing so fast

Sunday, July 19, 2009

Hey… i don’t like how fast my little baby is growing up! Everyday it seems she learns something new and grows! Just this morning i had to dress her in the next size bigger… :(

She is learning to roll over… she loves to grab! And now she is into sucking on her thumb. I try not to let her suck on it, like Daddy says, you can take the pacifier away but not the thumb. Every time i see her stick it in i pull it out and sometime i give her the pacifier if she won’t stop. It’s hard not to just let her suck on it cause it is so darn CUTE!

Also she is really getting good at grabbing toys and now she likes her pack’n’play a lot. She spends a lot more time in there playing with her toys, just talking and blowing bubbles.

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She will be 14wks old this coming Tuesday on the 21st. 3.5 months… isn’t it crazy?

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Scooter

Saturday, July 18, 2009

She has is learning to scoot all over the place. I use to be able to put her (unbuckled) in her car seat, in the kitchen with me when I'm cooking. Now she scoots down dangerously, so i have to buckle her in (which she complains about terribly).

This is the first time i caught her doing it… and it was a good thing i happened to look over at her right then, because by the time i got to her she was about to scoot all the way out and onto the floor…. silly girl! (it about gave me a heart attack!!!)100_6921 

Oh she scoots in a circle too. When i put her in the pack’n’play she just goes in circles grabbing and kicking all of her little toys. It’s so funny to watch.

Friday, July 17, 2009

Doing much better

Thursday, July 2, 2009

Today we are feeling tons better! This morning when Bob was gone to school Mom and Dad Risch stopped by to visit for a few minutes while they were in town.

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Last night after we went out with one of Bob’s friends from the Air Force who was in town we didn’t get home till after midnight. Anabel had fallen asleep during the movie at about 10:15pm. She only barely woke up when we got home. I quickly fed her and she was asleep again. Well this little once decided she wanted so sleep for a loooong time. At about 11am i thought I should wake her up. I mean she had awoken in the night just enough to let me know that she wanted to eat but that was it. I figure she had basically been asleep for 12 hours because when i feed her at night she doesn’t really wake up.

Poor girl didn’t want me to wake her up. I tried to be nice about it but she started crying even with her eyes closed. She got so worked up and her eyes were still closed! I fed her and decided that if she was getting that worked up about it, i would just let her sleep, maybe she was still fighting off our sickness. Well when i went to lay her down she woke up and stayed up. That made me feel better.

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Well earlier today i got out a toy she really had never played with before and she really seemed to like it.

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Now she is asleep in my arms. She is to darling :D

The Angel

Starting Monday night me and Bob started feeling sick. We ended up getting worse and worse and Bob ended up coming home early from work. Well our sickness lasted until the next night (Tuesday). Our little Anabel was amazing. Thank God she hasn’t seemed to have gotten sick from us.

I think Anabel is either going through a growth spurts because i hear babies go through a growth spurt around 3 months and she is close to that. Or she was just simply trying to fight off the sickness going around. Anyways she basically slept all of Monday and Tuesday. Which it was good for us because i don’t know how we would have had strength to take care of her. She is an angel! I thanked her so so much because it was a blessing. Even when she was awake she was just all smiles and calm… i don’t remember her crying once or really fussing at all. I thank God too.

Now we are better and she is back to normal for the most part, but she still once to sleep more then usual. I’m letting her sleep too, because she might need it.

Being Crazy

Ok Monday night the night me and Bob started feeling bad… well this was before i felt bad. I had spent some time i found some music i really liked on Playlist.com. Then when i went into the kitchen to make Bob his supper, i turned on the music and started dancing around the kitchen as i cooked. I was crazy of course, just like my style.

I had set Anabel up in her car seat with her butterfly toy where she could see me if she wanted. Well this time she wasn’t interested in the butterfly. She was watching me the whole time, dancing goofy. It was sooo cute! The funny faces she was making was priceless. I can’t wait until she is old enough to dance with me. We are going to have so much fun!

Although when i went to take a picture of those faces she just kinda looked at me blankly:

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Anyway i had found a new recipe online which i thought Bob would really like.

It was basically chicken cooked in garlic and oil, with bacon and cheese topping it, then baked. I served mashed potatoes with it.

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Falling asleep so much!

Monday, June 29, 2009

Taking off where the last post stopped.... Anabel woke up, sat in my lap and i noticed her watching me doing things on the laptop... sooo i turned on 'Happy Feet' on netflix to see if she would like watching that better then me typing. She loves music so the movie really got her attention. She watched in my lap for the longest time, then ended up falling asleep.

After she woke i went to change her diaper and she pee'd once i got the diaper off. I thought i had caught it before it went everywhere but i was wrong... it was all over her in the back, all the way up to her hair SO i decided she needed a bath.

So far she has only taken baths with me in the tub with her, holding her in my arms, but today i didn't want to go threw all that and decided to give her a bath in the bathroom sink.

She loved it! It was a very short bath but while she was in there i did oil her up with baby oil. Once I got her out i laid her out on the bed. She loves being naked...but come on... what baby doesn't right?
I turned her over on her belly and it was so cute! She lifted her head some at first but she was more concentrated on her legs, which were going crazy! She was bringing her knees under like in a crawling position and then would push out.... she just let her head and arms lay on the bed. But she was working so hard with her little legs! She had her cute butt sticking up so high! It was funny.

If i put my arm behind her feet so when she pushed out she actually had something to push against, she would scoot across the bed. I think she will learn how to do her legs quite easily (when it comes to crawling) but she didn't seem that interested in pushing her head and shoulders up... i guess that will come with time.

Daddy came home and started playing with her on the bed. I still hadn't diapered her because she really seemed to enjoy it.

After a while though i thought it would be safer if i had at least i diaper on her.

While we were playing with her on the bed we got a knock on the door with our new shipment of web cams and head sets. We let her play and kick on the bed while we played with our new stuff, setting it up and all that jazz. She ended up falling asleep again all by herself just kicking and playing.

Today has felt really weird because she keeps going to sleep on her. I'm use to holding her and rocking her to sleep every time, it feels weird not to do that for her... but she has seemed extremely happy today so i guess i shouldn't feel all that bad.

I just put a blanket over her and let her sleep with no cloths on. She looked so comfortable!

Once she awoke from that nap i fed her and clothed her and in a few hours i had set her up in a sitting position on the couch and was talking to her and playing... i stopped for a few minutes to turn some music on on the laptop, looked over and she was asleep again! Geeze!
I didn't want to leave her sleeping sitting like that (plus i wanted to cuddle since I'm use to her falling asleep in my arms) so i picked her up, and now she is asleep on my shoulder.

She gets a little more independent everyday. I know it's a good thing but it just keeps it in my mind that she is changing and growing everyday, even if i don't really see it. I know my baby isn't going to be my little newborn for to much longer and part of me is a little sad. But the other is very happy to see her changing. I just want to remember everything because soon she is going to be all grown up!

Early wakes

(4am) Anabel started to fuss last night when we were sleeping which woke me up, i went to put her pacifier back in her mouth thinking that that was why she was crying. Then she let a scream. Freaked me out, i picked her up to comfort her and she screamed again. Bob was up by then, asking what was wrong. Which i had no clue. I had just fed her not over an hour before (i always look at the time) And it wasn't like her to cry to be fed, she usually just fusses. Anyways i knew she had dirty diaper but at this point i knew she would scream if i set her down.

I put her to nurse and she did right away then let out some major toots. Poor thing... that was probably the reason. I have been giving her the gas relief drops but not quite every two yours like they say you could give it... my poor little Anabel!

After nursing she was pretty much back to sleep but there was that dirty diaper i didn't want to leave on her. After changing her (which i did right where she was laying, in hopes it would be easier to get her back to sleep) she was bright awake.

She stayed up maybe 45minutes then went back to sleep. She woke up again at 7:30am and pooped. After i changed her she laid on the bed just playing and smiling. I was glad she didn't seem to act like gas was bothering her. I'm going to try and be better at getting the drops in her every two hours.

So i went and got some pillows to prop me up and also grabbed the laptop so i had something to do. I played with Anabel some, then let her play some on her own while i was on the computer. Usually Anabel wants my full attention so when she is ok on own, i usually let her, at least for a little while.

Whell anyways a few minutes ago she got so tired out by playing that she just fell asleep on her own. I love it when she falls asleep on her own without me having to do anything.

I probably shouldn't stay on the computer for to long, Bob would scold me, hehehe... maybe, maybe not.

Out and about

Sunday, June 28, 2009

Yesterday Anabel was super good. I had to get up early to make crab Rangoon and egg rolls for the 'Asian' meal after church today (Sunday). And i needed to get it done before 1pm because Mom Risch was picking us up to go shopping in the city with her. Bob decided to help me so we set up the car seat on a chair in the kitchen and Anabel sat in that staring at the hanging butterfly attached to her seat for over an hour... which is so not like her.


(blowing bubbles at the restaurant)
She stayed good the whole time while we were out shopping until on the way home, which she wanted to cry because she was hungry. She stayed awake most of the time while we were out and by the time we got home at around 7pm she wanted to be asleep and stay asleep. The only thing wrong with that is that when she goes to sleep that early she want to get up at like 5am.

So at around 10pm i woke her up and we took a bath. I washed her all up and then baby oiled her all over. She was in such a good mood after that. She wanted to lay there and talk. So i placed her in the center of our bed and let her talk and play. She ended up falling asleep on her own without the pacifier shortly after that. I was amazed with that because if she doesn't have the pacifier she usually wants to be nursed to sleep... but alas my little one is growing up :D

It was about 11:15 then and i had a choice, go to bed or stay up and clean my house which greatly needed it. I decided the latter and stayed up. I got sooooo much cleaned and my house looked so good. I even managed to set out of Sunday cloths for all three of us and packed up her diaper bag... both which i usually have to do early in the morning. Once i laid down to sleep i felt really good about myself. I had alllll the dishes done, all the clean cloths fold and put away, everything picked up in the living room... clean sheets on the bed, all the garbage gathered together and ready to go out by the door, and a load of laundry in the wash. It's nice to wake up to a clean house.

Morning was so much easier since i had done all that. On top of that Bob surprised me with buy donuts and some mocha drink for breakfast so that was a real treat.

But the down fall was that i think gas started bothering Anabel again during the night because she wiggled and wiggled all night all, tossing and turning, that i didn't get much sound sleep. Once during one of her night feedings she fussed and fussed and let out a long series of toots of gas. I felt really bad for her. Yesterday while i had been out with mom, i bought another thing of gas relief drops so i gave her some in the night, and then i have continued to do so today. I hope that really helps her.

Today in church she was great during worship and then ended up falling asleep in Mom Risch's arms but woke up a few minutes later. After that she was fussy. I tried feeding her but she really didn't want that. So i ended up having to leave the service. I changed her diaper and by that time she was bright awake. I ended up going into the kitchen/dinningroom of the church, laid out some blankets on the tables there, so it would be padded, and let her lay there playing and talking. She just wanted to talk and talk... and blow bubbles.

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Anabel likes watching TV

Friday, June 26, 2009

It was so cute when i noticed that Anabel was watching the movie with us. We were watching 'The great escape' on Netflix, one of Bob's favorite movies.

Belly Time

Thursday, June 25, 2009

Anable usually gets really upset if i put her on her belly, i even has this baby blanket designed for belly time with little mirrors and animals to look at, but she still gets mad. In this video you can see how i set up the pillows on the couch... she likes this alot better. I think it's cause she can actually see things that are going on around her, and boy can she pick up that head of hers. I figure it's working her musculs the same way as if she was flat on her belly, and get her use to being in the position, then i'll work her onto just her belly. She likes kicking the arm of the couch and pushing herself up by doing it.

Bobby found this video so funny because at the end i say she is going to start crying, and a split second later she does start crying.

Since i haven't been online in so long... an update

So here is a little recap of things that have happened since my long absence online:

Some of you might have known how i was determined not to let Anabel have a pacifier. I had in the past broken down and would try to give the pacifier to Anabel but she wouldn't take it at all. Well while after Anabel was up for almost 24 hours with only one short nap one day, Daddy decided to try giving her the pacifier again and this time it worked. After that everything got a lot easier.

She hadn't let me lay her down hardly at all when she was sleeping but with the pacifier i am now able to lay her down for naps and things. And boy night time is waaaay easier!

Our typical routine:

Anabel likes falling asleep around 9pm in my arms in the rocking chair... i usually watch TV or play a game on the laptop while holding her until 10pm or a little later. Then i go in the bedroom, turn the music on, turn on the fan and turn the lights off all but a night light. If she wakes up any during this time including if i need to change her diaper, i then nurse her and with in seconds she is back to sleep again
Now the heavenly part! She then won't stay still in less i lay her down with the pacifier... which i don't mind because holding her with me laying flat on my back since she was born had been killing my back! Now i lay her down, cuddle her a little bit (she has a certain way she wants to be cuddled at night) and then i can turn anyway i want and I've been sleeping sooo much better. I still don't sleep all night because i still wake up and check on her, and have to put her pacifier back in several times a night but she sleeps great. I've learned her body movement pretty well... i usually can tell what means she only wants the pacifier back in her mouth and what means 'I'm hungry'. So it's been working out pretty good....all but her wanting to wake up at 5am to play like the last few nights LOL

All in all she is a wonderful baby!

Currently she fell asleep on her own on our bed (next to me) she likes to sleep on her back, both arms stretched out , her legs drawn up with her knees falling to either side of her... it's really cute. Sleeping babies are just so darling to look at.

Oh yes and she has started drooling and wanting to chew on things. I never really looked inside a babies mouth before Anabel so i don't know if this is normal or not... but you can see like all of Anabel's teeth upper and lower, from one side the other, and looks like it's just under the surface of her gums. I find this very weird and odd but then again, like i said i don't know if this is normal or not. I'm hoping it means that it will be faster for her teeth to come in, anything to cut the teething time down a little would be great, or like Grandma Risch said 'maybe all the teeth will come in at once' which would be sweet as well.

The cutest laugh ever!

Anabel laughed for the first time ever yesterday because of Daddys tickles. It was so cute! Daddy had her laying on the bed and he was blowing raspberries on her legs and feet and she was enjoying so much... then all of a sudden she laughed... twice. I was so glad we both where there to hear it. It's the sweetest sound ever isn't moms?

My baby is getting more and more fun!

After she laughed i jumped up and grabbed the camera. I tried to keep it out of her sight cause if she sees the light on the camer she lately has just been freezing and staring at it. But of course she didn't laugh again for me... one of these days i'll caught it and put the video on here. Can't wait till she laughs again!

Rolling?

Monday, June 15, 2009

Ok this morning I finally got up at around 7:10am because Anabel didn't want to be asleep anymore. So I took her out into the living room so she could play and talk and not wake daddy up. I swear it was only like 10min into playing when she rolled over on her own! I had her laying on her back on the couch and I was next to her talking to her. She turned onto her side towards me, then slowly started to work her way towards her belly. She started getting upset because her arms was sticking out under her and getting in her way to roll completely over on her belly but I didn't touch her I wanted to see if she would actually make it all the way to her belly. After a little work she got the arm out of her way and rolled completely over to her belly, lifted her big head and started looking around.

I was amazed! She's only 2 months and 1 day old! Isn't that to soon to be rolling over?
After that she quickly got upset because she hasn't learned to like being on her belly yet. So I rolled her back over to see if she would do it again. This time though she could sight of me and just wanted to lay there and talk to me, not roll over.

After awhile I decided to help her out for one more turn. I put her on her side and immediately she started rolling over, just like she did before, her arm got in the way but she worked and finally was on her belly again.

We are going to keep practicing this because I'm so excited, LOL
I think she will learn to crawl easily because of how she works her legs and kicks constantly!


Mother’s Day 09

Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Life as a Mom is wonderful yet difficult. Anabel is starting to get use to the swing, thank goodness! I love holding her but I can’t get anything done when I am.

Last Sunday was my first real mother’s day. Last year Bob got me a card for mother’s day because of loosing poor Ducky but this year I actually have a little one in my arms.

It was a good mother’s day. We had Anabel's dedication that morning at church. Heidi, all my boys, and my mom came down to see it. Then we went to the zoo park and had a cook out. After that we went and met bob’s parents in Kansas City at this really good Italian restaurant for dinner. Anabel had a hard time on the way home, she cried almost all the way so it was nice to get home and get her settled down. I think she had been too stimulated by the last couple of days and just needed to be home.

My sister Heidi got me a great framed picture; it was a collage of pictures from Anabel’s birth. I loved it. Bob got me a picture frame for our family photo (once we get one). Mom and Dad Risch got me an awesome Asian plant, which I hope I can keep alive, lol. Bob and Jess went in together and got me a day of beauty. I had mentioned that after Anabel was born that I wish I could have a day of beauty but it was just wishful thinking, I never thought I would actually get it! They got me a manicure, pedicure, facial and massage! I can’t wait to actually go and get it done!

My Little Anabels Birthday

Thursday, April 23, 2009

Happy Birthday Anabel!

April 14th
3:52pm

6.09lb
20in long
13.5in head
Lots of medium brown hair

It all started Saturday April 11th. My mom had came down the night before because I had started getting really down and depressed because Anabel hadn’t came yet and she wanted to keep me company. Well I remember it was almost lunch time that Saturday, and my mom had just gotten off the phone with my sister who mentioned maybe me taking castor oil to induce my labor. Well it took a while for me and my husband to make up our minds but finally we had decided to try it. So me and my mom took a walk to Wal-Greens to get the oil and then over to Dairy Queen to get a chocolate shake (they say that’s the best way to take the oil is in a shake). I took the stuff once I got home. Well that day was a slow day. I got diarrhea like it was suppose to do and I got light contractions about 10-15min. apart. I didn’t get any sleep because they got strong in the night.

We did get up and go to church the next day which was Easter Sunday. They slowed down during church and were almost gone by the time church was over. I was so depressed that once again my body was saying ‘no’. Bob took me to Buffalo Wild Wings after church because of the whole ‘spicy food can help induce’ rumor. I was convinced to try another dose of castor oil after eating, then we went to Wal-Mart to do was jogging laps. Contractions didn’t really start up again until we got to Mom & Dad Risch’s house for Easter dinner… then they hit HARD. They were about 1-3min. apart and very strong. After an hour we called the mid-wife and she had us come on in. Dad droves while me and bob sat in the back of the van. I was in so much pain and so completely tired. When we got there I was checked and she told me that I was only 2+cm dilated and that I should probably go home and rest… and that she didn’t think the baby was coming this week.

I was really mad then, fed up. That night was terrible… again. The next day the contractions were 10-15min apart and slowly got closer together, to 7-10min, 5-8min apart and so on. By the time bob came home I was totally out of it and my mom wanted us to go back to the midwifes to get checked again. I on the other hand was depressed and figured that it was useless because I had been having contractions and they hadn’t seemed to have done hardly anything, that there was no use waking up the midwifes for nothing. But the other part of me was saying ‘take me in and get this baby out any way possible’ LOL. When the contractions had been 5-8min. apart for about 3 hours Bob finally called the midwife to get her opinion. She said to wait till every single contraction was below 5min. for over an hour, then to call her and come in. Well it didn’t take to long until that was happening. We went to bed, which of course I got no sleep and either did Bob. At about 4:30am Bob finally agreed that we should head in again.
Everything kind of all ran together after that. I know when we got there the midwife said I was now 4cm dilated and that I should stay (FINALLY) I know sometime in there my sister Heidi was called and asked if she wanted to come down for the birth… which she did, along with Ethan and Christain. Later I would find out that Christian skipped soccer camp to come see Anabel….far to sweet of him!
I know I got in the tub right away and that Bob got in with me. Heidi was there to help me through each contraction (she was a life saver), to help get ice chips down me and to encourage me. I remember at one point the midwife checked me again and I was 6cm but that the baby was still really high up. She said ‘I think we will have a baby by noon’. HA HA noon rolled around and she checked me again… still a 6! I was more tired then I have ever been in my life and so completely angry it wasn’t funny. Although my anger went in swings, LOL.
The midwife had me try all kinds of positions, on the bed, on the floor, on the birthing ball… but I ended up back in the tub. I remember Heidi and the midwife asking me if I felt like pushing and me telling them I had no clue. The midwife said I could try pushing and to see if it felt good to push, if not, to stop. I started pushing with the contractions right after that and I think I pushed for almost 4 hours before Anabel came. Now I’m not to sure if I should have pushed that quickly or not. My mothers friend who has had 12 kids told her I probably shouldn’t have pushed until my body did it naturally… who knows.

I know I wanted to kill the midwife every time she touched me, and I let her know it too. Heidi said it looked like I was going to punch her several time, and boy did I want to! I know I almost reached down to grab and rip her hand out of me…. I was not a pleasant patient in the least.

I remember thinking to myself that I was to tired to go through all this and that I wished I was at a hospital to get meds and have them just take the baby out. LOL And right after I would have that thought I would literally remind myself ‘they say once you are in labor and want to give up, that means the baby is almost there’…. But it wasn’t happening fast enough for me.

Pushing her out was CRAZY!!! After each push I would growl and yell ‘No I’m done! I can’t!’ I was very loud, I know it… I kept think I was a whuss and then giving myself internal pep talks. They had me try the birth stool and during that is when my water broke. Meconium was in the water which frightened me but it wasn’t really surprising because I was over due. I wanted to stay on the birthing stool but the midwife said that wouldn’t be a good idea so they had me get back on the bed, side/back were I they had me grab both my feet and pull them to me chest with each push. I hated this because my legs where killing me.

There closer to the end it burned so bad and I knew I must be tearing (which I was).Finally though, her head popped out and they where right it felt good to have head out. The midwife told me not push that she needed to suction out Anabel and geeze talk about hard! Bobby really helped me with that, I want to push so bad! With the help of the midwife it was only one more push and Anabel was completely out and the relief was amazing!
They took some time suctioning her out some more, then finally brought her up on my chest. It was amazing! Her breathing was really fast so they suctioned her out several times.
Bob gave her a bath, she didn't seem to like to much so she wasn't in there very long LOL


She pooped all over me right away and then continued to do so through the next few hours about 5 times.
I ripped like crazy… no surprise there! I had about 6 stitches… it took a long time for her to sew me up. She said she had thought of cutting me while I was pushing her out but on one hand she was worried that if she had then the cut might have kept ripping and caused a lot of damage on me. It was in my birth plan for me just to rip naturally so at least she followed my wishes.

I tried to get as much water in me during labor but I’m sure I did have as much as I needed. When they let me up to go to the bathroom it was scarry trying to get back to the bed, everything went yellow and I was (probably loudly) telling them ‘I’m going to faint! I’m going to faint!’ LOL

It felt so good to eat afterwards too. Dad went next door to Long Johns Silvers and got me some fish and hush puppies… somehow I got a chocolate shake from sonic too… don’t know how that happened LOL
Needless to say after all that horrid pain I finally had my beautiful angle and I was on top of the world! I probably won’t be doing castor oil next time! Looking back on it even though I was way over due by all the due dates ever given to me, I should have waited like I had always said I was going too, and just waited till my body went into labor it self… oh well, we learn from our mistakes right?